Sunday, November 10, 2013

Communications in Mute

"Trophy Wife"
For this week's assignment, I chose to watch the show TROPHY WIFE which I knew nothing about.  First I watched it in mute, paying close attention to the non-verbal communication, then I watched it with the volume on and boy were my assumptions of what was going on way off.....

First of all, I assumed that the husband in the show lived with two wives and that those two wives were good friends.  The truth was that his ex-wife is always hanging around his house and his new wife really doesn't care for her much.  When the volume was on, they were very sarcastic to one another which in mute seems like genuine friendliness.  Very interesting!

Second, there were two other women in the show who had a couple of scenes together and I thought they were lesbians who were fighting, just because of the way they looked at each other and the closeness of their proximity in their interactions.  Well, again, truth is they just met and they weren't very nice to one another because one was a doctor who thought very little of the other, a mere bartender. 

If this had been a show that I normally watch, like Modern Family, I wouldn't have the same assumptions because I know the casts relationship with one another and it would have been easy to figure out what was going on in the episode, even on mute.

So, my biggest A-HA moment of this assignment was how SARCASM looks like genuine friendly interaction when you don't hear what is being said.  I have always hated sarcasm, and now hate it even more.  hahahahaha

Hope you enjoyed this post!  I for one, now picked up another show because Trophy Wife was actually a pretty funny show...(with the sound on!)

Janet

3 comments:

  1. Jeannette, I found the information about sarcasm to be very interesting. I began thinking about this and it really makes perfect sense that sarcastic comments are difficult communications for English Language Learners to understand because the words and the gestures are not where the message is...it's in the delivery. Great point, thanks for pointing it out! Carolyn

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  2. Janet,
    I understand how you feel about watching a show without any sound. We can watch body language which can tell you more than what is being verbalized, but reading body language from a television show without sound is more difficult than I originally thought t would be. I wonder if reading body language from a television show the best way to interpret because the scenes are scripted. Is the body language real?

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  3. Sorry Jeannette about the incorrect name. I did not pay attention to the auto correct.

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